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		<title>Christmas Cookies</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Dec 2010 06:06:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>JB</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Christmas Cookies: by Mompert Kristal Simituk I can remember from back in my childhood when my Grandparents had so much tradition and went the whole 9 yards for Christmas: that sweet smell of fresh baked Christmas cookies.. Yum! So, Tis the Season , Get out your baking pans and ingredients because we are about to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: center;"><em>Christmas Cookies: by Mompert Kristal Simituk </em></p>
<p>I can remember from back in my childhood when my Grandparents had so much<br />
tradition and went the whole 9 yards for Christmas: that sweet smell of fresh<br />
baked Christmas cookies.. Yum!</p>
<p>So, Tis the Season , Get out your baking pans and ingredients because we are about to bake bake and bake!</p>
<p>These Cookies Recipes have been tried and tested and are all delicious. You can<br />
also change the recipes up and add your own touch!</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #800000;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Holiday Chocolate Bon Bon Cookies</span></span></strong></p>
<p><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1085/5108325513_fb4082f90c.jpg" alt="Cherry Chocolate Chunk Cookie" width="333" height="500" /></p>
<p>prep time:30 min<br />
total time:38 min<br />
makes:4 doz. or 48 servings, 1 cookie (26 g) each</p>
<p>1 pkg. (6 squares) Baker&#8217;s White Chocolate<br />
1-1/2 pkg. (12 squares) Baker&#8217;s Semi-Sweet Chocolate<br />
1/4 cup butter<br />
1 can (14 fl oz/300 mL) sweetened condensed milk<br />
1 tsp. vanilla<br />
2 cups flour<br />
1/2 cup finely chopped walnuts<br />
2 Tbsp. icing sugar, sifted</p>
<p>HEAT oven to 350°F.<br />
CHOP each white chocolate square into 8 chunks; set aside. Microwave semi-sweet<br />
chocolate and butter in large microwaveable bowl on HIGH 2 min. or until butter is<br />
melted, stirring after 30 sec. Stir until chocolate is completely melted. Blend in milk<br />
and vanilla. Add flour and nuts; mix well. (Dough will be stiff.)<br />
SHAPE 1 level tablespoonful of dough around each white chocolate chunk,<br />
enclosing white chocolate completely. Place, 1 inch apart, on ungreased baking<br />
sheets.<br />
BAKE 6 to 8 min. or cookies are until soft and shiny; sprinkle lightly with sugar. Let<br />
stand 5 min. on baking sheet. Remove to wire rack. Cool completely. (Cookies will<br />
firm up as they cool.)</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #800000;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;">S&#8217;more Sandwich Cookies</span></span></strong></p>
<p><img src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3386/3548795659_26d87b8e87.jpg" alt="RECIPE: S&#039;more Sandwich Cookies" width="491" height="356" /></p>
<p>prep time:20 min<br />
total time:1 hr 47 min<br />
makes:33</p>
<p>1 pkg. (250 g) Philadelphia Brick Cream Cheese, softened<br />
1 cup icing sugar<br />
3/4 cup butter, softened<br />
1/2 tsp. vanilla<br />
2 cups flour<br />
1/2 tsp. baking soda<br />
4 tsp. coloured sugar<br />
1/3 cup Jet-Puffed Marshmallow Creme<br />
2 squares Baker&#8217;s Semi-Sweet Chocolate, melted</p>
<p>PREHEAT oven to 325ºF. Beat cream cheese, icing sugar, butter and vanilla with<br />
electric mixer on medium speed until well blended. Add flour and baking soda; mix<br />
well. Cover. Refrigerate 1 hour.<br />
ROLL dough to 1/8-inch thickness on lightly floured surface. Cut into 66 cookies,<br />
using 2-inch festive cookie cutters. Sprinkle half of the cookies with coloured sugar.<br />
Place all cookies, 2 inches apart, on ungreased baking sheets.<br />
BAKE 12 min. or until lightly browned. Cool on baking sheets 1 min. Remove to wire<br />
racks; cool completely.<br />
SPREAD bottom side of each of the plain cookies with about 1 tsp. marshmallow<br />
creme; cover with remaining sugar cookies, bottom-sides down, to form sandwiches.<br />
Drizzle with melted chocolate.</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #800000;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Chocolate Shortbread Cookies</span></span></strong></p>
<p><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1237/5149390768_2b3df815b0.jpg" alt="Vegan Gluten Free Chocolate Shortbread" width="444" height="500" /></p>
<p>Prep:20mins<br />
Total time: 38mins<br />
Makes: 5doz or 60servings</p>
<p>2 cups butter, softened<br />
1-3/4 cups icing sugar, divided<br />
3-1/2 cups flour<br />
1/2 cup cornstarch<br />
1 pkg. (6 squares) Baker&#8217;s Premium 70% Cacao Dark Chocolate, coarsely chopped</p>
<p>HEAT oven to 350°F.</p>
<p>BEAT butter and 1 cup sugar in large bowl with mixer until light and fluffy. Add flour<br />
and cornstarch; mix well. Stir in chocolate.<br />
ROLL dough into 60 (1-inch) balls; place, 3 inches apart, on baking sheets. Flatten<br />
slightly with bottom of glass.<br />
BAKE 13 min. or until centres are set and tops are lightly browned; cool on baking<br />
sheets 5 min. Add warm cookies, 1 at a time, to remaining sugar; turn to evenly coat<br />
both sides of each. Cool completely on wire racks.</p>
<p>All Recipes come from Kraft.ca</p>
<p>Written by Mompert: <strong>Kristal Simituk</strong></p>
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		<title>Give an Angel to an Angel!</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Dec 2010 01:03:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>JB</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you are not sure how to give that little extra this year, please take a moment to see the wonderful things happening at Helping Orphans Worldwide. HOW is my favorite organization that directly gives to the children and truly one of those places where the funds really do go to the needed. After donating a few years ago to HOW I have become e-mail [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://soapboxmama.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/Tienh13.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-3430" style="border: 4px solid black; margin: 5px;" title="Tienh13" src="http://soapboxmama.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/Tienh13-225x300.jpg" alt="" width="225" height="300" /></a>If you are not sure how to give that little extra this year, please take a moment to see the wonderful things happening at <span style="color: #0000ff;"><a href="http://helpinghow.com"><strong><em>Helping Orphans Worldwide</em></strong></a></span>.</p>
<p>HOW  is my favorite organization that directly gives to the children and  truly one of those places where the funds really do go to the needed.  After donating a few years ago to HOW I have become e-mail friends with  one of the founders and know her to be one of the most generous and self  less people I have ever met. This is truly one way to make  that tremendous difference in a child&#8217;s life.</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>You can make a difference AND give a gift!</strong><br />
Chantal  Brosens, Founder of Little Angel Hugs will donate an Angel Doll to a  sick child in need with every $50 tax-deductible donation to HOW.  Angel  Dolls are beautifully handmade and provide a sense of peace and  protection to the little ones who need it most.  Not only will your  donation give an &#8220;Angel to an Angel&#8221;, it will also provide medical care  for children in need of life saving surgery.  In our work this year in  Vietnam, we have encountered many children suffering from a variety of  conditions including congenital heart disease.  This type of condition  is treatable with the proper medical care, but many impoverished  families simply do not have the resources to care for their child&#8217;s  health. HOW is working to locate these children, educate their families  and raise funds to ensure that these kids receive the care they deserve.</p>
<p><a href="http://soapboxmama.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/FacebookPic_1.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-3432" style="border: 4px solid black; margin: 5px;" title="FacebookPic_1" src="http://soapboxmama.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/FacebookPic_1.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a>To read more about Angel Dolls visit: <a href="http://helpinghow.us2.list-manage.com/track/click?u=ee6cf80a31eff75b0b4fc9da6&amp;id=34cae4d31f&amp;e=263e64b0a8" target="_blank">www.littleangelhugs.com</a>.</p>
<p>To make a tax-deductible donation to HOW go to <a href="http://helpinghow.us2.list-manage.com/track/click?u=ee6cf80a31eff75b0b4fc9da6&amp;id=47f5b7bf31&amp;e=263e64b0a8" target="_blank">www.helpinghow.com</a></p></blockquote>
<p><strong>Give an &#8220;Angel to an Angel this holiday season!</strong><br />
With  every $50 donation to HOW, Little Angel Hugs will give an Angel Doll to  a deserving child in need.  Not only will you put a smile on a sick  child&#8217;s face, your donation will also pay for much needed medical care  for children in need of life saving surgery.</p>
<p>Standing on my soapbox, JB</p>
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		<title>Merry Christmas to Me</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Dec 2010 00:09:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>JB</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Since I have had my children I marvel at the changes in my Christmas wish list. I remember one year when I got a new digital day timer, suped-up computer speakers and hot, sexy lingerie. For years frivolous and extravagant gifts were under the tree and my eyes lit up like a kids with presents [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://soapboxmama.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/4288274743_bd02eaee63_z.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-3408" style="border: 4px solid black;" src="http://soapboxmama.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/4288274743_bd02eaee63_z-241x300.jpg" alt="" width="241" height="300" /></a>Since I have had my children I marvel at the changes in my Christmas wish list. I remember one year when I got a new digital day timer, suped-up computer speakers and hot, sexy lingerie. For years frivolous and extravagant gifts were under the tree and my eyes lit up like a kids with presents like new golf clubs or a cashmere sweater.<br />
<a href="http://soapboxmama.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/4288274743_bd02eaee63_z.jpg"><br />
</a> The last two years mom’s pile of presents has been pretty sparse. In fact last year I think I pre bought my own gift of an electric kettle and sheepskin slippers; my how things have changed.<br />
If being a mom has brought out the practical in you and baby’s new arrival has filled your Christmas list with have-to-haves instead of want-to-haves…then check out the hippest thing in diaper bags, <strong><a href="http://www.kalencom.com/main/page.asp?pg_no=&amp;p_id=115&amp;s_cate_id=01&amp;keyword=&amp;s_sub_cate_id=&amp;best_flag=&amp;new_flag=&amp;recommend_flag=&amp;opt=&amp;page=detail&amp;p_group_page_id=PRODUCT&amp;id=8&amp;id_detail=8">Kalencom</a></strong>.</p>
<p><a href="http://soapboxmama.com/soapbox-mama-deals/"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-3411" title="dipaer-bag" src="http://soapboxmama.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/dipaer-bag-300x221.jpg" alt="" width="270" height="199" /></a>Renowned animal illustrator Eleanor Grosch brings you the most beautifully designed accessories for your baby.  All of her animals are simplified to their essences and colored vibrantly to reflect the loveliness of our natural world. Each bag has a roomy  interior, plenty of storage pockets and an adjustable shoulder strap. Inside you will find, an insulated bottle bag, zippered storage pouch and fold-out diaper changer pad.</p>
<p>These bags make a statement and provide gorgeous color and style to something you carry with every day. Their functionality is most important along with their unique design that accentuates every mom’s personal fashion sense.<br />
<a href="http://soapboxmama.com/soapbox-mama-deals/"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-3413" title="dipaer-bag2" src="http://soapboxmama.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/dipaer-bag2-300x221.jpg" alt="" width="270" height="199" /></a></p>
<p>My new commitment to Soapbox readers is to provide great products at great prices, so we have a limited number of bags at an amazing soapbox price.  Regularly priced at 90.00, we may have what are looking for at the <a href="http://soapboxmama.com/soapbox-mama-deals/"><strong>Super Soapbox price 44.99</strong></a>. If you love to price compare, check out these other sites to really see what a great deal this is. Theirs are <strong><a href="http://www.canadapost.ca/shopper/items/2366250/Kalencom-Eleanor-Design-3960PARTRIDGE">listed sale price of 85.95.</a></strong> In fact, this is even better than on <strong><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Kalencom-Eleanor-Diaper-Bag-Peacock/dp/B001MA3ME8">amazon.com</a></strong>. Enjoy shopping.</p>
<p><a href="http://soapboxmama.com/soapbox-mama-deals/"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-3344" title="buy now banner-outlined-01" src="http://soapboxmama.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/buy-now-banner-outlined-01-300x134.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="134" /></a></p>
<p>Happy Holiday and Standing on my Soapbox, JB</p>
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		<title>Must Haves</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Dec 2010 01:09:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>JB</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Holidays are here and it is time to wear all those festive items that say: “Hey, look at me! I love Christmas!”  I don’t know about your kids, but mine have been wearing reindeer antlers, elf shoes and jingle bells on their knapsacks all week.  On the hunt for funky yet useful seasonal clothing, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="../wp-content/uploads/2010/12/Holiday-leggings-Slide-1.jpg"><img class="alignright" title="Holiday-leggings-Slide-1" src="../wp-content/uploads/2010/12/Holiday-leggings-Slide-1-300x186.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="186" /></a>The Holidays are here and it is time to wear all those festive items that say: “Hey, look at me! I love Christmas!”  I don’t know about your kids, but mine have been wearing reindeer antlers, elf shoes and jingle bells on their knapsacks all week.  On the hunt for funky yet useful seasonal clothing, I found the neatest snowflake legging by <a href="http://www.agoo4u.com">Agoo</a>.</p>
<p>These are the ONLY Christmas leggings on the market made with <a href="http://www.agooleggings.com//about.html"><span style="text-decoration: underline;">BAMBOO yarns</span></a>. That means they are super-dooper soft, not to mention, hypo-allergenic for any child with allergies or those with sensitive skin. Bamboo has been heralded to be odour resistant making them beneficial in the event of small spills or even diaper leaks. Speaking of diapers, leggings are the perfect accessory for EC babies and potty training as they make a fast trip to the bathroom easy.</p>
<p><a href="../wp-content/uploads/2010/12/Holiday-leggings-Slide-2.jpg"><img class="alignleft" title="Holiday leggings Slide 2" src="../wp-content/uploads/2010/12/Holiday-leggings-Slide-2-300x186.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="186" /></a>My three year old has so many pairs of <a href="http://www.agooleggings.com"><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Agoo Leggings™</span> </a> that she is able to pick out which one she wants to wear each day. With the snow here I simply slip a pair on under her jeans or pants or over another pair of tights. My favourite use for them is on her ankles where the icy cold wind hits as she rides in the stroller. I even used a pair on her brother when tobogganing to cover the top of his boots and keep the snow from getting in.</p>
<p>The best thing about Agoo leggings is that they are longer and wider than other brands and really do go from 0 to age 12. They fit chubby legs, long legs and even arms as the older girls are wearing them right up under their favourite short sleeve T-shirts.</p>
<p><a href="../wp-content/uploads/2010/12/Holiday-leggings-Slide-3.jpg"><img class="alignright" title="Holiday leggings Slide 3" src="../wp-content/uploads/2010/12/Holiday-leggings-Slide-3-300x186.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="186" /></a>Soapbox is proud to promote the fantastic <a href="http://www.agoo4u.com/ProductDetails.asp?ProductCode=Snowflake+Leggins+Pack"><span style="text-decoration: underline;">buy-one-get-one -50%-off-sale</span></a> right in time for Christmas. Go to <a href="http://agooleggings.com/">agooleggings.com</a> and get these adorable  Snowflake leggings along with your other favourite pair at an amazing discount.</p>
<p>Happy Holidays and Standing on my Soapbox, JB</p>
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		<title>Shopping from home</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Dec 2010 00:30:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>JB</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have to say I am full on into the Christmas spirit and got the shopping bug galore… I can’t wait to buy all the items I have in mind for the holidays and I am 100% getting them all online. I love shopping on the internet!!! It is so easy… I just Google exactlywhat I am looking for [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have to say I am full on into the Christmas spirit and got the shopping bug galore… I can’t wait to buy all the items I have in mind for the holidays and I am 100% getting them all online. I love shopping on the internet!!! It is so easy…</p>
<p><img class="size-full wp-image-3358 alignleft" style="margin: 10px; border: 4px solid black;" title="Screen shot 2010-12-03 at 4.00.43 PM" src="http://soapboxmama.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/Screen-shot-2010-12-03-at-4.00.43-PM.png" alt="" width="278" height="268" /></p>
<p>I just Google exactlywhat I am looking for and boom, there it is: pink skates for my daughter, vintage Ferrari car for my son, that new bestselling book for my sister and a burn-out-velvet scarf for the mother-in-law. The opportunity to price compare, receive coupons, find deals and get great perks is just one of the added bonuses in the shopping extravaganza on the web.</p>
<p>To make life even simpler, the new discount sites send daily deals right to my inbox, so without any effort I can see the greatest deal offered on the web while still in my pyjamas.. How awesome is that!</p>
<p>My new favourite site is <a href="http://www.motherofasale.com/ "><strong>Mother Of A Sale</strong></a> where a plethora of baby and mom friendly items are up to 80% off every day. Fabulous name brands like Joe Boxer, Robzees, Bug-a-lug and more are offered every day. In fact each sale that arrives I find someone who needs exactly what they are selling.</p>
<p><img class="size-full wp-image-3365 alignright" style="margin: 10px; border: 4px solid black;" title="moas" src="http://soapboxmama.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/moas1.jpg" alt="" width="225" height="219" /></p>
<p>As an Super Soapbox saving to you.. sign up for the Mother of a sale newsletter and receive their terrific sales daily. After you sign up you can use our exclusive soapbox ADDED discount of 10% your first purchase… how cool is that ?</p>
<p>Big savings and then even bigger savings care of soapbox…using this coupon code: robsav10 (all lower case).</p>
<p>Here’s the link to sign up now and start saving… <a href="http://www.motherofasale.com/ "><strong>Mother Of A Sale</strong></a></p>
<p>Standing on my soapbox, JB</p>
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		<title>Las Vegas Savings</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Nov 2010 23:50:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>JB</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I was recently in Las Vegas on business trip. I love Vegas for all the shopping! Forget the gambling, I would rather swallow my quarters than give them away to a machined that is programmed not to let you win, my days of drinking and dancing are few, so I scour the boutiques, malls and [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://soapboxmama.com/soapbox-mama-deals/"><img class="alignnone size-thumbnail wp-image-3315" style="float: left; border: black solid 4px; margin: 8px;" title="las-vegas" src="http://soapboxmama.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/las-vegas1-150x140.png" alt="" width="150" height="140" /></a>I was recently in Las Vegas on business trip. I love Vegas for all the shopping! Forget the gambling, I would rather swallow my quarters than give them away to a machined that is programmed not to let you win, my days of drinking and dancing are few, so I scour the boutiques, malls and outlets. I love that one day you are looking at Dior in the flagship store, then next picking cotton tees out of a bin, 3 for $10.00.<br />
<a href="http://soapboxmama.com/soapbox-mama-deals/"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-3279" style="float: right; border: black solid 4px; margin: 8px;" title="girl-with-bling" src="http://soapboxmama.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/girl-with-bling-197x300.png" alt="" width="197" height="300" /></a><br />
What I love most about the shopping in Vegas is the bling. Everything is be-dazzled, be-jeweled and just full of glam. I love the glimmer of fancy embellishments and sparkly things.  One thing I saw a lot of was big rhinestone belts, cute  with almost anything, hot with just jeans. but at $95.00-$125.00 each it was hard for me to put my money down. Although I didn&#8217;t buy one, the vision never left my mind and regretting my lack of frivolity I couldn&#8217;t give up the idea of not having one.</p>
<p>Determined as I am.. it took me a few days to track down the wholesaler.. but I did, and got 2 for the price of one!!! So now I have every color and have ordered a few for my friends.. and of course I couldn&#8217;t help but think about all my soapbox friends.. maybe with the holidays around the corner, you yourself would like to have the hottest belts out there, at a super, special price…a Soapbox Special price&#8230; $24.99!</p>
<p><a href="http://soapboxmama.com/soapbox-mama-deals/"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-3280" style="border: black solid 4px; margin: 8px;" title="bling-black-mini" src="http://soapboxmama.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/bling-black-mini.png" alt="" width="183" height="153" /></a><a href="http://soapboxmama.com/soapbox-mama-deals/"><img class="size-full wp-image-3344 alignright" title="buy now banner-outlined-01" src="http://soapboxmama.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/buy-now-banner-outlined-01.jpg" alt="" width="313" height="140" /></a></p>
<p>Standing on my Soapbox, JB</p>
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		<title>My kid called me a Volcano….</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Nov 2010 00:59:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>JB</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Up until a few months ago, bed time at our house was pretty uneventful. I would read my kids a story, tuck them in, lots of kisses and cuddles and they would wonder off to sleep no problem. Somewhere though, in the last six months a new dynamic has transpired as the kids start talking [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Up until a few months ago, bed time at our house was pretty uneventful. I would read my kids a story, tuck them in, lots of kisses and cuddles and they would wonder off to sleep no problem. Somewhere though, in the last six months a new dynamic has transpired as the kids start talking to one another across the hall. At first it was a small number of words or “good-night” a few extra times, but it now it has become full blown singing, talking and telling jokes.</p>
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<p>At first I smiled and felt happy about their private camaraderie. It was nice to see them communicating in their own unique way. After a few exchanges, I would kindly call from downstairs that it was bed time and no more talking, but each night it grew to be a bit more and more.</p>
<p>The last few weeks it has turned into games and getting out of bed. My son offering to retrieve a book from a shelf my daughter can’t reach, my daughter giving my son one of her stuffed animals to play with. Trips to the bathroom are now in pairs and each one makes an effort to tuck the other one in so they are the last to their own bed.</p>
<p><img src="http://soapboxmama.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/two-kids-in-bed-300x198.png" title="two kids in bed" class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-3199" title="toddler sleep" width="300" height="200" style="float:right; border:solid black 5px; margin:8px;" /></p>
<p>Like many things with kids, it gets pushed and pushed till the barrier is blurred and rules seem to be out the window. Lately they have carried on up to an hour after bedtime with me shouting and threatening discipline as a last resort. The other night they made two joint trips to the bathroom and had to wash their hands for what seemed like forever…patience worn thin I went upstairs to harshly put them back to bed.</p>
<p><a href="http://soapboxmama.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/volcano-two.png"><img src="http://soapboxmama.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/volcano-two-198x300.png" alt="" title="volcano two" width="198" height="300" class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-3223" style="float:left; border:solid black 5px; margin:8px;"  /></a></p>
<p>As I rounded the corner into the bathroom, raising my voice at their goofing around, my son fearfully scurried into his bed, but my courageous and determined three-year-old daughter stood there and said. “Stop being a volcano mommy!”</p>
<p>Out of the mouths of babes, she was right; I was being a mommy volcano. I laugh about it now, but at the time, not quite as funny, though true. Since then I tell them if they don’t want to see the volcano, then they had better get to sleep. It seems to be working for the moment, but I would love to hear your comments on how you get your kids to bed or any suggestions you might have for this mommy volcano.</p>
<p>Standing on my soapbox, JB</p>
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		<title>The Power of a New Hair-Do.</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Oct 2010 23:39:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>JB</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My girl friend called me this weekend, it was her birthday weekend of the big 40. Her treat to herself was a fabulous new hair style. She called me in glee, futzing in the mirror feeling young and spry. She admitted she had had this hair cut, back in her twenties and the flirt and [...]]]></description>
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  <img src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2406/2651720247_57413fa585.jpg" width="260" height="169" align="left"  />My  girl friend called me this weekend, it was her birthday weekend of the big 40.  Her treat to herself was a fabulous new hair style. She called me in glee,  futzing in the mirror feeling young and spry. She admitted she had had this  hair cut, back in her twenties and the flirt and flare of it was making her  feel that young again. We laughed, joked around and talked about how little  things like that mean a lot when the bigger birthdays creep up.
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  Feeling  great, she donned on some heels, new red lipstick &nbsp;and called a babysitter  to surprise and somewhat ambush her husband with her new look. We giggled as  she anticipated the atmosphere of romance and quickly got off the phone for a  night of thrill between the sheets.</p>
<p><img src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2282/2003560277_3715fc246b.jpg" width="183" height="230" align="right" /><br />
Around  11:30&nbsp;&nbsp;I noticed that she was online&nbsp;&#8230;.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;curious, I e-mailed&nbsp;&nbsp;and asked  what she was doing on the computer?..&nbsp;&nbsp;Why was she not in the throws  or passion and interlude with her hubby?..&nbsp;&nbsp;She laughed, replying,  &quot;&nbsp;&nbsp;Mission complete&quot; . </p>
<p>  I  fell off my chair laughing. She was on the couch, under a blanket watching one  of the shows she taped and resting, letting&nbsp; me know she had crammed a  month of romance into two hours…that&#8217;s 40 for ya!<br />
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  Standing  on my soapbox, JB</p>
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		<title>Mommy Sabbatical&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 23 Oct 2010 00:04:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>JB</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Last month I turned 40. My first-born son (now five) spent a full week away from home, fishing and camping with his grandparents, and my youngest daughter basically potty trained herself in a matter of days. His new independence and her new confidence have been a bit of a heart-tugger for me, as my babies [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://farm1.static.flickr.com/146/362134335_d456d0e751.jpg" alt="" width="207" height="202" align="right" />Last month I turned 40. My first-born son (now five) spent a full week away from home,  fishing and camping with his grandparents, and my youngest daughter basically potty trained herself in a matter of days. His new independence and her new confidence have been a bit of a heart-tugger for me, as my babies are longer babies anymore. Combined with the few extra wrinkles I have noticed, the sagging buttock and the fact that these days I prefer to nap whenever I have a few minutes, the passing of time seems very noticeable.
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<p>  Of course a number is just a number and it really is all about how we feel inside, so I have to admit I&#8217;ve been feeling less than forty, but more worked over than ever. I don&#8217;t look like those forty years olds I remember as a young woman, yet nor do I have the fresh-face skin and ‘living in the Hamptons’ look either.</p>
<p>  These last few years of glorious mommy hood have been a complete life-changing experience, and although I wouldn&#8217;t change a minute of it for the world I can look back and see what a ride it has been. From the sleepless nights to the hormonal fluctuations, from the parenting rules to the rules we too need to have ourselves as parents, from wanting to know everything to throwing our hands up with no clue what so ever, this roller-coaster ride of being a mom has been one heck of an experience so far!</p>
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  For those of you who follow soapbox, you may have noticed that this mommy sort of disappeared lately. My know-it-all, do-it-all, get-it-done ‘fuse’ just fizzled out.  All the chores, tasks, demands, and things I had to do just took on a life of themselves and it was my blog that had to give. At times I was remorseful, disappointed, and angry that I had no time to update and connect with all of you. At other times I understood that life was asking me to prioritize, clear my plate, and refocus. Like the babe learning to walk, I had to re-find and re-define my way to make me important. That meant health and happiness came first, joy and laughter second, peace and harmony third, and all the unnecessary items were deleted.</p>
<p><img src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4061/4676864527_de89a529e6.jpg" alt="" width="246" height="163" align="left" />Now, through the thick of it, I can look back and see how we moms easily overload ourselves with tremendous amounts to do, work ourselves ragged, and extend ourselves too far. When that happens, something has got to give and too often it is our own health, our own goals and our own peace of mind. Having been there and back, I simply wanted to share my experience. I wanted to reach out and express that I suspect every one of you reading this has done more than you ever imagined juggling motherhood, working, taking care of everyone and everything.<img src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3394/3499576475_1c3a62f944.jpg" alt="" width="170" height="255" align="right" /></p>
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<p>Unlike writing a blog, motherhood has no time off, there is no down time and there is no disappearing. Although we may be able to drop things, reorganize and take time off other duties, the role we have as moms is all encompassing. The key is to find balance, moderation and things that allow us to rest, rejuvenate and restore ourselves.</p>
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<p>
  I saw a great article on the 50 ways to be happy, but with moderation in mind I thought I would only start by sharing the first 10. Not to be inundated nor overwhelmed&#8230; this is a good start towards some of the positive thinking and action steps that will support me and you result in a more balanced day:</p>
<p>  <img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1398/1051031932_a06457821e_z.jpg" alt="" width="277" height="184" align="left" />1. Stop behaving badly. We know the things we do that are not good for us, make us feel bad about ourselves – stop doing those things. Do what feels right.</p>
<p>  2. Moderate everything. Too much of anything is bad for us. Know when to say enough is enough.</p>
<p>  3. Stop procrastinating. Chunk it down, do one thing right now that you have been putting off.</p>
<p>  4. Face it. You know what you avoid and what negative activities help you escape. Make a plan to face it – head on. Get help if you need it. But, deal.</p>
<p>  5. Forgive. It is not about letting them off the hook. It is about you, stop carrying that weight around with you. The load will crush you.  <img src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4034/4622932524_6d1b8c48b8_z.jpg" alt="" width="294" height="195" align="right" /></p>
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  6. Laugh. Lots. At anything and everything, for no reason at all. Have a tickle fight, watch movies, do what you have to do to evoke deep belly laughs.</p>
<p>  7. Dance. By yourself, with children or with others. Just dance, bounce, bop – move.</p>
<p>  8. Do something wild. Something that you have always wanted to do, but fear held you back. (Keep it legal, people.)</p>
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  9. Get quiet. Meditate, pray, breathe. Quiet your mind for as long as you can each day.</p>
<p>  10. Decide. Stagnation works against you. Make the decision that is right within the depths of your soul.</p>
<p>  <img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1030/3168403589_823dab4396_z.jpg" alt="" width="307" height="230" align="left" />So after what I am calling my ‘Super Mommy Sabbatical’, a rest from doing just too much, I emerge happier, healthier and clearer. I find myself focusing on what is important to me, what makes me feel good and what allows me to be more of who I am. No more taking on too much and no more burnout from lack of balance. No more getting lost in all the stuff to do, but rather enjoying doing stuff. Now I include in my days that which makes my heart sing, that which is just for me. Combining this with the joy that I receive from my children, family and friends is essential! </p>
<p>  What does this mean to all of you? Well, I’d like to welcome myself back to Soapbox, to a part of me I love, enjoy and cherish. With moderation in mind, I look forward to sharing more of the next phase of my mommy hood. My son started school full time in the fall, my daughter is taking ballet. There are no more diapers, bottles, or baby talk in my daily routine. The high chair, diaper pail and plastic bibs are gone. This is that next step that comes too quick for every mom, but one that I am thrilled to embark upon and share with each of you. Thank you for your understanding and support.</p>
<p>What is essential to include in your days? What is it that makes your heart sing, what is it that you could find some time to do &#8211; just for you? </p>
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		<title>Happy Mother&#8217;s DAy</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 09 May 2010 20:59:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>JB</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[What is a Mother A mother is someone to shelter and guide us, to love us, whatever we do, With a warm understanding and infinite patience and wonderful gentleness, too. How often a mother means swift reassurance in soothing our small, childish fears, How tenderly mothers watch over their children and treasure them all through [...]]]></description>
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<p>A mother is someone to shelter and guide us, to love us, whatever we do, With a warm understanding and infinite patience and wonderful gentleness, too.<a href="http://soapboxmama.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/screen-shot-2010-05-09-at-14942-pm.png"><img class="size-medium wp-image-3087 alignright" style="border: 4px solid black; margin: 10px;" title="screen-shot-2010-05-09-at-14942-pm" src="http://soapboxmama.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/screen-shot-2010-05-09-at-14942-pm-300x200.png" alt="" width="300" height="200" /></a></p>
<p>How often a mother means swift reassurance in soothing our small, childish fears, How tenderly mothers watch over their children and treasure them all through the years!</p>
<p>The heart of a mother is full of forgiveness, for any mistake, big or small, And generous always in helping her family, Whose needs she has placed above all.</p>
<p>A mother can utter a word of compassion and make all our cares fall away, She can brighten a home with the sound of her laughter and make life delightful and gay.</p>
<p>A mother possesses incredible wisdom and wonderful insight and skill &#8211; In each human heart is that one special corner which only a mother can fill!</p>
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<p>Standing on my soapbox, JB</p>
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